A Fathers Grieving Heartache.
Viewing comments for Chapter 15 "The Passing of Me?"My loss of my only son Jason.
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Comment from kahpot
Another excellent though very sad chapter, seeing your life through your son as he helps the grieving, acceptance, and to be at ease for your next journey, best wishes to you****kahpot
reply by the author on 30-Jan-2020
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Another excellent though very sad chapter, seeing your life through your son as he helps the grieving, acceptance, and to be at ease for your next journey, best wishes to you****kahpot
Comment Written 30-Jan-2020
reply by the author on 30-Jan-2020
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Thank you very much and you reviewed it quite properly!
Doctor Ricky 1024
Comment from BrooklynnPreston
Wow. This is absolutely beautiful, and I admire respect for the Lord Jesus Christ in both your story and author's note. You picked words which were not vague, and there were no grammatical issues as far as the eye could see. Well done!
reply by the author on 30-Jan-2020
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Wow. This is absolutely beautiful, and I admire respect for the Lord Jesus Christ in both your story and author's note. You picked words which were not vague, and there were no grammatical issues as far as the eye could see. Well done!
Comment Written 30-Jan-2020
reply by the author on 30-Jan-2020
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And this one seem to be touching quite a few people.
I'm still waiting for my six stars though!
Thanks,
Doctor Ricky 1024
Comment from Mary Kay Bonfante
Here you are, as if inside your son Jason's soul, as he is about to pass into eternity. He is no longer looking at things from the perspective of this world, yet still somewhat surprised to be going, so soon (too soon) into the next. He doesn't want to remain in a vegetative state, but he wants to feel again, as he will (and is now) in Heaven, with God.
Look at that amazing picture, that adorable little child crouching over the candles, yet you know there have to be unseen parental hands holding him and preventing him from falling over... I know you wish you could have had unseen hands that day, guiding Jason away from danger, but no one really knew. Maybe not even the crazy driver knew what the lethal outcome would be. I can't imagine how many tears you have shed, or your poor wife Carolyn. How did you manage to finish raising your other children? That's a rhetorical question, the answer may be too difficult. God bless you and be with you, Ricky.
reply by the author on 30-Jan-2020
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Here you are, as if inside your son Jason's soul, as he is about to pass into eternity. He is no longer looking at things from the perspective of this world, yet still somewhat surprised to be going, so soon (too soon) into the next. He doesn't want to remain in a vegetative state, but he wants to feel again, as he will (and is now) in Heaven, with God.
Look at that amazing picture, that adorable little child crouching over the candles, yet you know there have to be unseen parental hands holding him and preventing him from falling over... I know you wish you could have had unseen hands that day, guiding Jason away from danger, but no one really knew. Maybe not even the crazy driver knew what the lethal outcome would be. I can't imagine how many tears you have shed, or your poor wife Carolyn. How did you manage to finish raising your other children? That's a rhetorical question, the answer may be too difficult. God bless you and be with you, Ricky.
Comment Written 30-Jan-2020
reply by the author on 30-Jan-2020
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the answer to your last question about raising my children they definitely were still children especially my youngest daughter Dana and only 17.
Everybody handles things in their own special way.
She let Satan get his hands around her indulge are in heroin but fortunately two years later I was able to bring her back!
She is now 34 happy with a beautiful 11 year old son named Alexander.
That's shows you how God works!
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ask for your previous question about guiding my son away from danger with helping hands as in the picture of the child I did blame myself for I am the father figure.
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also that horrible day in the hospital I couldn't stop crying and I'm supposed to be structure in a family I couldn't stay in that room looking at my son like that and I had to come back!
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After everything was done and said and we knew his purpose I had to go back one last time I told my wife and my kids I'll be right back.
they are transferred Jason into a small room where there was a technician taking bile after while on blood for soon he would be coming part of the...
"Gift of Life Network!"
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I said these words to him so I can never forget...
'I know you can hear me I know you knew this was going to happen and now I think you know your purpose to save lives.'
'God bless you son and I will never, ever let anybody forget you!'
'And, I say these words in the name of Jesus Christ.'
Amen
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Thanks for your reply, Ricky. I'm glad Dana is okay now, by the grace of God and with your support, and that you have a grandson, Alexander.
I guess it would be natural to blame yourself, even though the accident wasn't your fault. Crying was natural too. It's so good that you were able to have that last talk with Jason, about his purpose of saving lives. In our society some people think men don't cry, especially fathers, but fathers have feelings, sometimes strong feelings. Even God has feelings. He loved us so much that He gave His Only Begotten Son. Amen.
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Thanks Mary,
And, I can always depend on you to understand.
Ricky
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You're welcome. It's good to have you as a friend. - Mary Kay
Comment from papa55mike
What a wonderfully written story and I love the picture. I hope your dreams are sweet and Love comes into your heart. Best of luck with your writing!
Have a great day and God bless.
mike
reply by the author on 30-Jan-2020
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What a wonderfully written story and I love the picture. I hope your dreams are sweet and Love comes into your heart. Best of luck with your writing!
Have a great day and God bless.
mike
Comment Written 30-Jan-2020
reply by the author on 30-Jan-2020
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Thanks a lot Mike and glad you enjoyed this!
Doctor Ricky 1024
Comment from padumachitta
Hello another beautiful sad wander through death and grief.
I read it twice though I be a wee bit lost. It compelled me on.
Death of those we love is made easier with writing, so it would seem.
reply by the author on 30-Jan-2020
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Hello another beautiful sad wander through death and grief.
I read it twice though I be a wee bit lost. It compelled me on.
Death of those we love is made easier with writing, so it would seem.
Comment Written 30-Jan-2020
reply by the author on 30-Jan-2020
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I'm an expert on death not only have I experienced it first handwriting my bedroom with my wife but I also have beat it over a dozen times from three suicide attempts in one time. Being run over three times all my bike by cars, motorcycle accidents, car accidents, among other things!
Thanks,
Doctor Ricky 1024.
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Oh geez
Glad you?re still here!
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Oh geez
Glad you?re still here!
