For The Love Of Esther Grace
Remembering March 6, 2013.25 total reviews
Comment from Kathleen Washnis
Oh Sally, this was a very touching story and so hard to wrap your head around that you and the family were on the brink of a great celebration when the unthinkable happened. While we know Esther is in the best possible place a little one can be and will be a part of your future someday as God doesn't lose those children, it is never the less, a loss of what could have been. But we don't understand and must trust for whatever reason, He needed her with Him and blessed your family with Sophia! So she still has a sister waiting for her on the other side and it will be for all eternity as you have a granddaughter to reunite with as well! Beautiful, touching picture of the two of you at the grave site.
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Oh Sally, this was a very touching story and so hard to wrap your head around that you and the family were on the brink of a great celebration when the unthinkable happened. While we know Esther is in the best possible place a little one can be and will be a part of your future someday as God doesn't lose those children, it is never the less, a loss of what could have been. But we don't understand and must trust for whatever reason, He needed her with Him and blessed your family with Sophia! So she still has a sister waiting for her on the other side and it will be for all eternity as you have a granddaughter to reunite with as well! Beautiful, touching picture of the two of you at the grave site.
Comment Written 06-Mar-2019
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Than you, dear Kathleen. You have the right perspective and we will all rejoice together in Gods heavenly kingdom.
All my best,
Sally xoxo
Comment from LaRosa
This is so very moving, so full of emotion, questions, and love. I can not begin to imagine the pain of that terrible moment in time for you and your family, the mom and dad.
It is so moving too that you turned and trusted God to fill the emptiness, to give purpose. I think that He wanted you to go forward, sharing your trust and faith in Him even when life feels on the brink of midnight. Your grandchildren will have a living testament to guide them.
I'm sure it wasn't easy to write, but I'm glad you shared Esther with us. By the way...what a beautiful biblical name!
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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This is so very moving, so full of emotion, questions, and love. I can not begin to imagine the pain of that terrible moment in time for you and your family, the mom and dad.
It is so moving too that you turned and trusted God to fill the emptiness, to give purpose. I think that He wanted you to go forward, sharing your trust and faith in Him even when life feels on the brink of midnight. Your grandchildren will have a living testament to guide them.
I'm sure it wasn't easy to write, but I'm glad you shared Esther with us. By the way...what a beautiful biblical name!
Comment Written 06-Mar-2019
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Thank you, dear LaRosa. It is so good of you to stop by. I am honored by the excellent review and kind words. It was not easy to write, but if it helps anyone, I am glad.
All my best,
Sally xoxo
Comment from Janice Canerdy
This nonfiction piece is absolutely excellent. The story is heart-wrenching and
sad--then joyful and peaceful. Sustaining prayer is a constant element in the story.
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This nonfiction piece is absolutely excellent. The story is heart-wrenching and
sad--then joyful and peaceful. Sustaining prayer is a constant element in the story.
Comment Written 05-Mar-2019
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Thank you so much for the outstanding review and kind support. Prayer has always been central to my faith. What folks do without this kind of faith is beyond me.
All my best,
Sal xo
Comment from tbacha58
Hi Sally, it has been a long time I am having trouble reading, with or without glasses, when I went through your story, I also thought Jesus and His Holy Father are great, as I read your life in those few lines. Sorry for the baby, but as you said, God gave you another baby. You wrote it in a beautifully simple way. Loved it. Bless you, all. Terry xoxo
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Hi Sally, it has been a long time I am having trouble reading, with or without glasses, when I went through your story, I also thought Jesus and His Holy Father are great, as I read your life in those few lines. Sorry for the baby, but as you said, God gave you another baby. You wrote it in a beautifully simple way. Loved it. Bless you, all. Terry xoxo
Comment Written 05-Mar-2019
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Thank you so much, dear Terry. Your review is so very kind. I appreciate you and your kind words are soothing.
All my best,
Sal xoxo
Comment from lyenochka
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about this very difficult loss! I hope the entire family is doing alright as you wrote like Job in faith that Blessed is the Name of the Lord, even through this searing loss. Thanks for sharing. What a great picture that you can still visit the little grave with your granddaughter.
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about this very difficult loss! I hope the entire family is doing alright as you wrote like Job in faith that Blessed is the Name of the Lord, even through this searing loss. Thanks for sharing. What a great picture that you can still visit the little grave with your granddaughter.
Comment Written 05-Mar-2019
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Thank you so much, dear Helen. I appreciate your kind and encouraging words. My prayer and faith is reflected in my family members, as well. We can say, it is well with our souls.
All my best,
Sal xoxo
Comment from JudyE
Such a sad story. I'm so sorry you all lost little Esther. Your writing conveys well the emotions you were feeling.
Just one point: I did wonder if 'stabilized' is the right word in the following sentence but you would know better than I.
'She was taken to her mother once she was stabilized so we could mourn her together as a family.'
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Such a sad story. I'm so sorry you all lost little Esther. Your writing conveys well the emotions you were feeling.
Just one point: I did wonder if 'stabilized' is the right word in the following sentence but you would know better than I.
'She was taken to her mother once she was stabilized so we could mourn her together as a family.'
Comment Written 05-Mar-2019
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Thank you so much for the excellent and kind review. It is greatly appreciated.
All my best,
Sal :+)
Comment from WalkerMan
The loss of a wanted child -- at any age, but especially at birth or in early infancy -- may be the most painful moment in a parent's or grandparent's life. All that could have been done was done, to no avail. Your selfless prayer, as you later realized, was heard, but answered in a better way not immediately evident -- Crystal recovered and healthy Sophia was born a year later for you to cherish and be there to help raise.
We cannot know, but perhaps Esther had some unobvious flaw that God spared her the agony of living with until dying in an even more traumatic way for all who loved her.
Our souls manifest physically in this world to learn, and in consequence grow toward the light. Esther's brief presence had a positive influence on all of you, including Sophia. She will grow up with a wisdom and compassion others may not acquire for many years, if ever. God does, indeed, show us His love.
The quotation from the Book of Job is most appropriate; and, as later is written there, He gives far more than he takes. Even for you, He took your sight, that you may see the truth more clearly, as you show in your writing.
May penning this story help you transform your tears from those of grief into ones of understanding of the Love which surrounds you and your family, and let that be Esther's everlasting legacy.
reply by the author on 05-Mar-2019
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The loss of a wanted child -- at any age, but especially at birth or in early infancy -- may be the most painful moment in a parent's or grandparent's life. All that could have been done was done, to no avail. Your selfless prayer, as you later realized, was heard, but answered in a better way not immediately evident -- Crystal recovered and healthy Sophia was born a year later for you to cherish and be there to help raise.
We cannot know, but perhaps Esther had some unobvious flaw that God spared her the agony of living with until dying in an even more traumatic way for all who loved her.
Our souls manifest physically in this world to learn, and in consequence grow toward the light. Esther's brief presence had a positive influence on all of you, including Sophia. She will grow up with a wisdom and compassion others may not acquire for many years, if ever. God does, indeed, show us His love.
The quotation from the Book of Job is most appropriate; and, as later is written there, He gives far more than he takes. Even for you, He took your sight, that you may see the truth more clearly, as you show in your writing.
May penning this story help you transform your tears from those of grief into ones of understanding of the Love which surrounds you and your family, and let that be Esther's everlasting legacy.
Comment Written 05-Mar-2019
reply by the author on 05-Mar-2019
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Thank you, Mike. This is a kind and heartfelt review. I can tell you lived a long and loving life. I appreciate the outstanding marks and encouragement. We are doing very well and just had time at the gravesight a few days ago when the kids were visiting from out of town. A pink birthday cake will be made tomorrow in honor of her by my grandkids. They have grown to be so loving and tender. I am sure when we see her again in God?s kingdom, we will rejoice forever.
All my best,
Sal :+)
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You are most welcome, Sal. Your grandchildren are proof that those raised in love will be loving themselves. May your family continue to be so blessed. -- Mike
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Thank you, again! Sal :+)
Comment from patcelaw
This wonderfully worded story is so touching and the tragedy tugged at my heart. I can't even begin to imagine what this would be like for her parents or her grandparents. In the end Good was so good to give you another granddaughter. Patricia
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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This wonderfully worded story is so touching and the tragedy tugged at my heart. I can't even begin to imagine what this would be like for her parents or her grandparents. In the end Good was so good to give you another granddaughter. Patricia
Comment Written 05-Mar-2019
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Thank you so much for the excellent review and always kind comments.we are all grateful for God?s goodness as we have a shared faith as a family and we can say, it is well with our souls.
All my best.
Sal xoxo
Comment from Donka Kristeva
You are a master of story telling, Sally. and this is not an ordinary story!! It is written with the heart--love, gratitude, praise for our Creator and Giver of life, grief, faith in the face of loss. God gave you this gift to bless others!!
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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You are a master of story telling, Sally. and this is not an ordinary story!! It is written with the heart--love, gratitude, praise for our Creator and Giver of life, grief, faith in the face of loss. God gave you this gift to bless others!!
Comment Written 05-Mar-2019
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Dear Donka, what a wonderful and insightful review. Thank you so much. We share a family wide faith and we can all say, it is well with our souls. We still mourn her loss, but we have hope of life eternal in Christ. We will see her in God?s kingdom and rejoice together forever.
All my best,
Sal xoxo
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Yes, that is our living hope, Sally. We are here as pilgrims, to pass through trials and by God's grace overcome them. You are very welcome, my sister in Christ!
Comment from KatyM
I am so sorry about Esther Grace. What a beautiful name. It's so hard to loose a child, no matter what age. As you may remember we lost our Jessica when she was 10 and 1/2 years old, just short of her 11th birthday. She had a brain tumor. She fought for 14 months. She won just not the way we had wanted her to win. We would have rather had her with us here on earth. It was not meant to be. Before she had even been diagnosed with cancer, I felt that God told me that Jessica was not going to see adulthood.
Anyway, thanks for sharing Esther Grace with us. hugs...katy
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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I am so sorry about Esther Grace. What a beautiful name. It's so hard to loose a child, no matter what age. As you may remember we lost our Jessica when she was 10 and 1/2 years old, just short of her 11th birthday. She had a brain tumor. She fought for 14 months. She won just not the way we had wanted her to win. We would have rather had her with us here on earth. It was not meant to be. Before she had even been diagnosed with cancer, I felt that God told me that Jessica was not going to see adulthood.
Anyway, thanks for sharing Esther Grace with us. hugs...katy
Comment Written 05-Mar-2019
reply by the author on 06-Mar-2019
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Katy, you are so tender and sweet. I fanned you long ago through Jessica?s story. I was remembering her as I wrote this and hoped you would be able to review my story. My inspiration to write about Esther was birthed that day. Thank you, again.
Love, Sal xoxo
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Awww, thanks! katy
