A Deadly Combination
Dementia and Diabetes are not a good match.40 total reviews
Comment from Selina Stambi
Shari,
The rueful, ironical tone of the write makes enjoyable, in spite of the sad undertones. Love the acerbic note in the conclusion. Did he get the humour?
You are a brave lady and I think this is a worthy contender in the contest.
God bless Frank - and you, dear.
Love,
Sonali
cell phone(-)size
He keeps a record(,) but sometimes forgets to
"I forgot how to get blood from my finger(.)"
grumbles(,) but sees that I'm right
I'll get you (for?) this, my big darling
that all is not right i(n) his new world
reply by the author on 05-Aug-2014
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Shari,
The rueful, ironical tone of the write makes enjoyable, in spite of the sad undertones. Love the acerbic note in the conclusion. Did he get the humour?
You are a brave lady and I think this is a worthy contender in the contest.
God bless Frank - and you, dear.
Love,
Sonali
cell phone(-)size
He keeps a record(,) but sometimes forgets to
"I forgot how to get blood from my finger(.)"
grumbles(,) but sees that I'm right
I'll get you (for?) this, my big darling
that all is not right i(n) his new world
Comment Written 05-Aug-2014
reply by the author on 05-Aug-2014
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Thanks, Sonali, for catching some careless mistakes.
Appreciate that.
Hugs,
Shari
Comment from Robin Gilmor
A clever write that has always been your pen; however, this could be serious and not really that funny after all. My husband is getting forgetful at age 81, and I am noticing more changes. Time takes it's toll on us all, but with your strong support, Frank will be fine. I'm with you. Smiles, Robin :)
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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A clever write that has always been your pen; however, this could be serious and not really that funny after all. My husband is getting forgetful at age 81, and I am noticing more changes. Time takes it's toll on us all, but with your strong support, Frank will be fine. I'm with you. Smiles, Robin :)
Comment Written 04-Aug-2014
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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At 81, your husband's memory loss is more apt to be age-related. Go on line for info on how to know the difference. Since dementia and Alzheimer's can't be cured, just maybe delayed by meds, I figure, I'll just hope I keep my mind focused while he struggles with his.
Comment from joann r romei
This was a fun read, poor frank, he is lucky to have you as a caregiver as well. diabetes isnt a joke,, my father in law has it, and he doesnt watch. he gets hospitalized frequently.
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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This was a fun read, poor frank, he is lucky to have you as a caregiver as well. diabetes isnt a joke,, my father in law has it, and he doesnt watch. he gets hospitalized frequently.
Comment Written 04-Aug-2014
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Frank's not overweight anymore, but he doesn't exercise because of a heel spur that the doctor is reluctant to take out. No hospitals yet. Thanks for reading and the stars, joann.
Comment from mermaids
I feel your pain. As a nurse, I have worked with many difficult patients over the years and diabetes is so hard,it involves so much,including re-educatiing the patient. At least you have a sense of humour and wrote prick on the lancet. Best wishes for the contest.
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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I feel your pain. As a nurse, I have worked with many difficult patients over the years and diabetes is so hard,it involves so much,including re-educatiing the patient. At least you have a sense of humour and wrote prick on the lancet. Best wishes for the contest.
Comment Written 04-Aug-2014
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Thanks, mermaids. Appreciate your comment on the lancet.
Comment from Acquired Taste
This is such a sweetly funny tome.
My husband is diabetic so I am familiar with the 'schedule' they must follow. That alone can be wearying - with added mental issues it has to be frustrating - for both of you.
A lovely story on every level. AT=/
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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This is such a sweetly funny tome.
My husband is diabetic so I am familiar with the 'schedule' they must follow. That alone can be wearying - with added mental issues it has to be frustrating - for both of you.
A lovely story on every level. AT=/
Comment Written 04-Aug-2014
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Thanks, AT for your insightful review. Much appreciated.
Comment from GeorgieBoy
Excellently described. It is so real that I thought I was there. Dialogue is believable and true to life. Loved the humor at the end. Congratulations, it is well crafted.
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Excellently described. It is so real that I thought I was there. Dialogue is believable and true to life. Loved the humor at the end. Congratulations, it is well crafted.
Comment Written 04-Aug-2014
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Wow! What a great review. Thank you so much for the sixer too. :-)
Comment from AAud
Great opening! Also, you did an amazing job describing the procedure that diabetics must follow (especially for someone like me, who didn't know all that was involved).
Your ending was clever and funny. Great job!
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Great opening! Also, you did an amazing job describing the procedure that diabetics must follow (especially for someone like me, who didn't know all that was involved).
Your ending was clever and funny. Great job!
Comment Written 04-Aug-2014
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Yes, there are a lot of steps to go through. I'm glad I explained it clearly. Have to laugh to get through each day. LOL
Comment from judiverse
Your writing on this subject is so poignant. You show your husband's frustration about not remembering how to do things. As a diabetic, it's so important that he gets the procedure right. He's fortunate you're there to help, and good that he still knows to call on you if he forgets something. It must be hard for you when he becomes upset and contradicts you, even you're right. That's part male ego, I suppose. He wants to hang on to that feeling of being right. Love your conclusion, and wonder if he did pick up on the reference when you wrote prick. judi
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Your writing on this subject is so poignant. You show your husband's frustration about not remembering how to do things. As a diabetic, it's so important that he gets the procedure right. He's fortunate you're there to help, and good that he still knows to call on you if he forgets something. It must be hard for you when he becomes upset and contradicts you, even you're right. That's part male ego, I suppose. He wants to hang on to that feeling of being right. Love your conclusion, and wonder if he did pick up on the reference when you wrote prick. judi
Comment Written 04-Aug-2014
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Believe it or not, he didn't until I pointed it out to him. The sad thing is that he still in denial and thinks I'm wrong, he's right!
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It's so hard, isn't it? Especially when in the military and on the job, he was the one in charge. Just as long as he follows the procedures he's supposed to. judi
Comment from Kenneth Schaal
For eight years I helped take care of my Mother-in-law; She suffered the same diseases as your husband, dementia, and, diabetes. She was bad, and for a devout Christian woman, what a mouth. I was to fascinated by the things she said and did, to ever get upset with her--but my wife, well that's another story. I hope you have some help, or other options available. Kenny
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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For eight years I helped take care of my Mother-in-law; She suffered the same diseases as your husband, dementia, and, diabetes. She was bad, and for a devout Christian woman, what a mouth. I was to fascinated by the things she said and did, to ever get upset with her--but my wife, well that's another story. I hope you have some help, or other options available. Kenny
Comment Written 04-Aug-2014
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Some fascinating and funny things do happen. Frank's mother had Alzheimer's and talked about sex all the time! I'll get help when the time comes. Thanks, Kenny for sharing your stories.
Comment from OLA THOMAS
What a heart rendering post. Going through this painful experience everyday is very harrowing. Thank goodness for a supportive wife who cares without a fluttering heart. Well done.
ola thomas
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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What a heart rendering post. Going through this painful experience everyday is very harrowing. Thank goodness for a supportive wife who cares without a fluttering heart. Well done.
ola thomas
Comment Written 04-Aug-2014
reply by the author on 04-Aug-2014
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Thanks, OLA. The only tell tale sign is my ongoing hives from stress.
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No qualms, just be at peace with him and yourself. God will renew your strength.
ola thomas
