Comment from SilverFoxes

Excellent

I think this woman needs her head read! Who does she think she is coming on to him like that? That is just wrong!
I am glad you have a strong relationship with your husband. Trust is a very important thing in all relationships.

 Comment Written 30-Aug-2008

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reply by the author on 03-Sep-2008

Thank you for the terrific review! :-) Me too.
Jan

Comment from martinC

Excellent

Well I think you could qualify as a councilor....alot of time and money would be saved, and you would have alot of interest...
I am pleased that you have a good strong relationship, your husband should be grateful and proud....hope this has helped you vent your frustration and anger, and that this Jezebel got the message

martin

 Comment Written 28-Aug-2008

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reply by the author on 28-Aug-2008

Thank you so much, Martin. :-) You are too kind. I think she got the message. Time will tell! LOL I really appreciate the review.
Jan

reply by martinC on 28-Aug-2008

Your welcome....and if she doesn't get the message....just send her a dead fish in brown paper....and a note from me saying 'she sleeps with the fishes''....lol

martin

reply by the author on 28-Aug-2008

ROTFLOL I will do that!! :-)
Jan

Comment from davidray

Excellent

Hi Jan,
I realy enjoyed reading something so different from you. Well done! I like the way you included the reader in this, as if you were actually talking to us.
There are a few rough spots, writing wise, with your wordiness and repeating words in the same sentence and such, but I'm not going to bother bringing them up. The truth is ... I enjoyed it and that's all that matters.
Take care, my dear. YOu and your man. :)
David

 Comment Written 10-Aug-2008

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reply by the author on 11-Aug-2008

Thank you so much. I agree with you - it needs some polishing. :-) I wrote it in a hurry as usual! I appreciate your kind words.
Jan

Comment from Wendyanne

Excellent

Hi Janilou. We all have to vent at times or else we would explode lol. You seem as though you go out of your way to make sure your husband is happy. I gave up on that many years ago lol

 Comment Written 09-Aug-2008

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reply by the author on 11-Aug-2008

Thank you so very much! :-)
Jan

Comment from Kym Jade

Excellent

Congratulations, you two have something so special going. It is so pleasing to hear about a happy couple. Hope this Jezebel gets the message and stays away.

Love and blessings

How is Blondy? Hope she isn't tormenting the goats too much.

 Comment Written 08-Aug-2008

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reply by the author on 11-Aug-2008

Thank you so much! :-) Blondie is doing fabulously! I will have to take a photo of her and do a story-update! :-) She thinks she is a goat now. LOL
Hugs,
Jan

Comment from Sue-z-Q

Excellent

Hi Jan:
Great message full of sage advice. Thousands of gals could benefit from reading it. Might save a few hundred marriages. Most women don't know what to do to keep their man from desiring a little strange stuff. Some men can't seem to function unless it is strange stuff, but they're the unlucky and unfortunate ones. Luckily for both of you, your hubby doesn't fit that mold.

A toast to you both: "May the enchantment last a lifetime."
Sue-z-Q

 Comment Written 08-Aug-2008

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reply by the author on 08-Aug-2008

Thank you so much! :-)
Hugs,
Jan

Comment from azbukivedi

Excellent

Jan, you rock, but sometimes in this essay you sound too defensive. It's almost like you have to please your husband all the time for him to be faithful or happy. What if you have a dark streak for whatever reason and don't feel like cooking or having sex for a few weeks? I don't think it should make a difference...

 Comment Written 07-Aug-2008

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reply by the author on 08-Aug-2008

Thanks! :-) I decided to reply in a pm so I could be more specific.
Hugs,
Jan

Comment from GerryMacNeil

Excellent

Funny, and WONDERFUL, Jan! I wish this were an entry for as "Strong Character" Contest, because it would be a winner just to have the writer being a stronger character than the artwork!

I did an essay on Jezebel in seminary--now there's a case of political slander! LOL

Thanks for venting with such artistry!
Gerry

 Comment Written 07-Aug-2008

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reply by the author on 08-Aug-2008

Thank you so much, Gerry! :-)
Hugs,
Jan

Comment from Terra Dane

Excellent

Enjoyed. Well written with splashes of humor and honesty. You tell a complete little story here, expressing emotion, fear, values. You engage the reader in an intimate slice of life and relationship. Nice job.

 Comment Written 07-Aug-2008

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reply by the author on 11-Aug-2008

Thank you very much! :-)
Jan

Comment from ledford

Excellent

Very interesting:-) Great job!

"When she thought I wasn't watching (like I'd ever take my eyes off her)" ... cute:-)

" I love what my husband does, when another woman starts" ... I recommend taking out this comma

Great ending!

 Comment Written 07-Aug-2008

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reply by the author on 11-Aug-2008

Thanks! I took out the comma, or at least I think I did, the other day when I was reading the reviews! If not, I will. LOL Glad you enjoyed this one!
Jan