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Comment from MelReyn
I dislike philosophy. I want straightforward, no nonsense, clear as day... no riddle to make my brain ache, just tell me what you want me to know type of story. That is why I LOVE this piece of writing. Yes, it's philosophy, but I'm not feeling any speck of hate or disdain or apathy. It's perfect. It's amusing, it's insightful. It's so good, the only thing that could make it better is if you printed it on foil and wrapped a piece of chocolate with it and then hand delivered it to me. ;)
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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I dislike philosophy. I want straightforward, no nonsense, clear as day... no riddle to make my brain ache, just tell me what you want me to know type of story. That is why I LOVE this piece of writing. Yes, it's philosophy, but I'm not feeling any speck of hate or disdain or apathy. It's perfect. It's amusing, it's insightful. It's so good, the only thing that could make it better is if you printed it on foil and wrapped a piece of chocolate with it and then hand delivered it to me. ;)
Comment Written 18-Aug-2013
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That, and a bottle or Merlot with Waterford glasses...I like you....automatically, entirely due to your straight forward and honest response.
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LOL Yes, or a nice Riesling. ;) That sounds lovely. Great. Now I'm going to have to cook up an Italian meal for dinner. Does spaghetti count?
Ps. I like you too, due to the awesome title of this piece. How could I not?!
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Ah, a girl with taste that runs towards iced white wine...okay, don't over cook the pasta and don't you dare hurl it at the wall to see if it's done...and by the way, I'd recommend a Brunello, white wine in Italy is like Kool-Aid if served with food from the heart.
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I'm no wine expert, but I love to taste local winery's...brew? Bottle?... So I've tried some blackberry and strawberry and apple. Probably all the same as kool-aid! I will definitely grab a bottle of Brunello next time I'm out. Putting it on my shopping list now! :)
Comment from N.K. Wagner
"I hate you too...please pass the bread?" Ingrid, I laughed out loud at this line (but no ?, it's a request). It's the perfect response to the declaration of the thwarted teenaged girl who's just been told she's stuck with the mother Nature gave her instead of the one belonging to "Everybody else". You're correct, of course. The opposite of love is apathy. I'd say your morning meanderings were quite successful - and entertaining, as well. :) nancy
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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"I hate you too...please pass the bread?" Ingrid, I laughed out loud at this line (but no ?, it's a request). It's the perfect response to the declaration of the thwarted teenaged girl who's just been told she's stuck with the mother Nature gave her instead of the one belonging to "Everybody else". You're correct, of course. The opposite of love is apathy. I'd say your morning meanderings were quite successful - and entertaining, as well. :) nancy
Comment Written 18-Aug-2013
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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Let me keep you laughing for a few more days and then you can indulge in the nervous breakdown to which you are entitled.
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Thank you, my friend. Hugs. :) Nancy
Comment from marijmd
The ending gave me a chuckle. I agree the opposite of love is just not to care at all. Hate it truly the biggest use of energy!
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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The ending gave me a chuckle. I agree the opposite of love is just not to care at all. Hate it truly the biggest use of energy!
Comment Written 18-Aug-2013
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Thanks and I love you too.
Comment from reconciled
Hello Ingrid.....-smile-....well I do give a shit, I've examined, fondled and caressed it. Today I plan to French kiss it. Furthermore anyone who doesn't harbor hate....disgust's me...lol Ahhh K...seriously....brilliant write sage. love you Michael
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Hello Ingrid.....-smile-....well I do give a shit, I've examined, fondled and caressed it. Today I plan to French kiss it. Furthermore anyone who doesn't harbor hate....disgust's me...lol Ahhh K...seriously....brilliant write sage. love you Michael
Comment Written 18-Aug-2013
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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Man, was that warm saliva dripping down my throat....you devil you!
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Ya know...I've said this before...and I'll say it again....there is a fine line that separates love & hate.....kiss me baby...-wink-
Comment from Soledadpaz
Wonderful philosophical essay. I especially like the imagery of "fondle the word." You are right, hate takes up too much energy and eats at a person's core. I'm amazed so many people seem to have the time for it.
I would say the opposite of love is indifference.
Sol
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Wonderful philosophical essay. I especially like the imagery of "fondle the word." You are right, hate takes up too much energy and eats at a person's core. I'm amazed so many people seem to have the time for it.
I would say the opposite of love is indifference.
Sol
Comment Written 18-Aug-2013
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Hugs, ingrid
Comment from ExperiencingLiphe
I had my little (Big brother big sisters) and she had a melt down and while I was driving her home (as she kicked and screamed) she yelled I hate you. The only thing I could think of to say was I'm sad you hate me but I still love you. I wasn't feeling strong love for her at the time but really how do you respond to a child who is freaking out when she yells something like that. I thought that was the best response because after I replied I'm sad you hate me but I still love you she stopped in her tracks and just stared at me. I'm assuming her mom reacted differently from the 30 seconds of nothing I got in return as she thought of a come back. Her next question was why I still loved her after she acted the way she was and I told her that that's what big sisters do. Well, in the end she went back to her tantrum and we eventually made it home but it was certainly enlightening.
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I had my little (Big brother big sisters) and she had a melt down and while I was driving her home (as she kicked and screamed) she yelled I hate you. The only thing I could think of to say was I'm sad you hate me but I still love you. I wasn't feeling strong love for her at the time but really how do you respond to a child who is freaking out when she yells something like that. I thought that was the best response because after I replied I'm sad you hate me but I still love you she stopped in her tracks and just stared at me. I'm assuming her mom reacted differently from the 30 seconds of nothing I got in return as she thought of a come back. Her next question was why I still loved her after she acted the way she was and I told her that that's what big sisters do. Well, in the end she went back to her tantrum and we eventually made it home but it was certainly enlightening.
Comment Written 18-Aug-2013
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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My grandson had his own meltdown in a parking lot and it took every bit of enamel left on my teeth not to say 'I hate you, too."
Instead, I gave him permission to be angry with me, but I sorely missed the release of my own rage as I was meteing out grandmotherly advice.
Comment from Sasha
You are amazing. I have had many an argument with my children about using the word hate. It is to final, so permanent. "I hate Suzie" or, "I hate Billy" are just some of the meaningless arguments we had. I have always told them to chose their words carefully. Use the one you really mean. Don't just toss out 'hate' as though it were a description of a quiet summer's eve. It ended up being a pointless argument since I was a poor example. Hate was a word I seldom, but too often used to describe people in my family. Okay, I'm not perfect...who is?
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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You are amazing. I have had many an argument with my children about using the word hate. It is to final, so permanent. "I hate Suzie" or, "I hate Billy" are just some of the meaningless arguments we had. I have always told them to chose their words carefully. Use the one you really mean. Don't just toss out 'hate' as though it were a description of a quiet summer's eve. It ended up being a pointless argument since I was a poor example. Hate was a word I seldom, but too often used to describe people in my family. Okay, I'm not perfect...who is?
Comment Written 18-Aug-2013
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Get off the damn podium...me...that's who. I am bloody perfect, and just so long as I don't invite anyone to join my conversation, use up air or participate in my debate, I'll continue to be perfect and don't you forget it, Missy.
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Sounds like a winner to me.
Comment from Jumbo J
Hi Ingrid,
you know the only thing love has in common with hate is that they are both powerful emotions. I used hate as a means to a goal, the same way I could have chosen love. One positive and one negative. I do believe if I used love instead of hate I would not be as injured... Hate breeds hate and contempt, even for one's self. But in saying that hate drove me hard and wouldn't allow myself to give in until I had nothing left to give... But now I'm very much like you... I don't give a shit. A nice bit of writing, seem s you put your flair on what ever you want... Clever lady.
Kindest thoughts,
James xx
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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Hi Ingrid,
you know the only thing love has in common with hate is that they are both powerful emotions. I used hate as a means to a goal, the same way I could have chosen love. One positive and one negative. I do believe if I used love instead of hate I would not be as injured... Hate breeds hate and contempt, even for one's self. But in saying that hate drove me hard and wouldn't allow myself to give in until I had nothing left to give... But now I'm very much like you... I don't give a shit. A nice bit of writing, seem s you put your flair on what ever you want... Clever lady.
Kindest thoughts,
James xx
Comment Written 18-Aug-2013
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I fight valiantly not to bore myself to death.
Comment from BethShelby
You bring up a subject I've never given much thought to before. I can't help but wonder why a dilemma over the meaning of hate plagued your pre-dawn hours. It seems to me that love requires an emotional investment too. Apathy on the other hand wouldn't. I agree with you about disgust. Your thoughts concerning that seem right on target. I'll have to mull over the hate thing a bit longer. I hope it doesn't keep me awake. This doesn't sound like fiction. More like philosophy. Whatever, it started my brain to turning this morning and I needed that.
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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You bring up a subject I've never given much thought to before. I can't help but wonder why a dilemma over the meaning of hate plagued your pre-dawn hours. It seems to me that love requires an emotional investment too. Apathy on the other hand wouldn't. I agree with you about disgust. Your thoughts concerning that seem right on target. I'll have to mull over the hate thing a bit longer. I hope it doesn't keep me awake. This doesn't sound like fiction. More like philosophy. Whatever, it started my brain to turning this morning and I needed that.
Comment Written 18-Aug-2013
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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Well that just goes to prove how bloody lazy I am....didn't even stop to look at the genre and sub-text, but I have changed it now to commentary and non-fiction.
Comment from STEPHEN A CARTER
After reading innumerable pieces of drivel it is refreshing to come across a well written work that demands attention and respect. Love the last line,
"You know, the opposite of love is apathy, and at this point, I don't give a shit."
Regards:
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After reading innumerable pieces of drivel it is refreshing to come across a well written work that demands attention and respect. Love the last line,
"You know, the opposite of love is apathy, and at this point, I don't give a shit."
Regards:
Comment Written 18-Aug-2013
reply by the author on 18-Aug-2013
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What are you saying? good Lord, don't tell me you've been dusting with rose petals and listening to chirping bluebirds all morning?
You might just as well go to church and have a sleep if that's the extent of your Sunday morning brunch.
Thanks for the glitter and kind words.
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Dear S: Find the 'glitter' in these words and I will sleep in church.
"... across a well written work that demands attention and respect."
Regards:
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The hammock in the backyard can be equally spiritual. Thank you.
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The hammock in the backyard can be equally spiritual. Thank you.
