Family Poems and Stories 2010-2017
Viewing comments for Chapter 14 "Minneapolis bound"...musings on us
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Comment from Mrs Happy Poet
Hello, my friend, I know this journey is going to be very hard and it is a big step for you and you are probably a mixture of emotions right now but remember Gregory is your son the things you done were out of love and you did them to help him hopefully move forward God will be with you through this time of uncertainty I hope that you have a positive outcome and build bridges I will pray for you both take care regards, Jill
reply by the author on 14-May-2017
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Hello, my friend, I know this journey is going to be very hard and it is a big step for you and you are probably a mixture of emotions right now but remember Gregory is your son the things you done were out of love and you did them to help him hopefully move forward God will be with you through this time of uncertainty I hope that you have a positive outcome and build bridges I will pray for you both take care regards, Jill
Comment Written 08-May-2017
reply by the author on 14-May-2017
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Hi Jill; thank you so much for your kind concern for my trip. I'm back and I will be posting a story about the journey later today. Your good thoughts and prayers were a blessing to me,
~patty~
Comment from Gypsy Blue Rose
Hello, my friend,
I think you did a good job with your story. It's a difficult situation.I can imagine if this happened to my son it would break my heart. I think you did well with the presentation too.
reply by the author on 14-May-2017
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Hello, my friend,
I think you did a good job with your story. It's a difficult situation.I can imagine if this happened to my son it would break my heart. I think you did well with the presentation too.
Comment Written 08-May-2017
reply by the author on 14-May-2017
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Hi Gypsy; thank you so much for your kind concern for my trip. I'm back and I will be posting a story about the journey later today. Your good thoughts and prayers were a blessing to me,
~patty~
Comment from TAB_that's me
I didn't read your one a few weeks ago. I have a drug addict/alcoholic son as well. He is finally clean after being charged with multiple felonies last year. He will turn 31 in a few days.
I know how hard this will be. I am glad you aren't enabling him any more yet being supportive.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Teresa
reply by the author on 14-May-2017
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I didn't read your one a few weeks ago. I have a drug addict/alcoholic son as well. He is finally clean after being charged with multiple felonies last year. He will turn 31 in a few days.
I know how hard this will be. I am glad you aren't enabling him any more yet being supportive.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Teresa
Comment Written 08-May-2017
reply by the author on 14-May-2017
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Hi Teresa; thank you so much for your kind concern for my trip. I'm back and I will be posting a story about the journey later today. Your good thoughts and prayers were a blessing to me,
~patty~
Comment from Heidi M
I can understand why you may be experiencing some trepidation; I'm nervous for you just reading about it! It sounds like you are going into a difficult situation well-prepared, though. It also sounds like you are being wise in loving your child. I'm really proud of you for going on this journey and will be anxious to read about it when you return.
reply by the author on 14-May-2017
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I can understand why you may be experiencing some trepidation; I'm nervous for you just reading about it! It sounds like you are going into a difficult situation well-prepared, though. It also sounds like you are being wise in loving your child. I'm really proud of you for going on this journey and will be anxious to read about it when you return.
Comment Written 08-May-2017
reply by the author on 14-May-2017
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Hi Heidi; thank you so much for your kind concern for my trip. I'm back and I will be posting a story about the journey later today. Your good thoughts and prayers were a blessing to me,
~patty~
Comment from Rasmine
My prayers are going with you, Patty. I had an addicted fiance. I know now that he never really loved me, I was a means to an end. He lived with me, stole from me (saying he was 'cleaning' my apartment when I caught him--yeah, cleaning me out!). We never had relations because he couldn't rise to the occasion, to say it in a nice way. Heroin does that--he was too relaxed for that.
Drug addicts are keen and I believe kind of psychic to money so be careful. When Jay was leaving my apartment for good, I hid my money under a bunch of my writing. He came out of the bathroom and looked right there. Now I hid that money before he was even inside. Then one time I wanted to give him a four-leaf clover I found (cause I thought he was really trying to stop his addition and it was for luck), when I opened my wallet to find it, he spotted the twenty I had tucked inside of it--how the hell did he see that? Now we are apart, and I hope to God he is okay, but I also know that they lie and lie and lie and lie again. They are experts at that.
Just to show you what I found out about a drug addicts desperation: I've read about a 'Whizzinator' that addict strap on that looks just like a penis. It has a vial of fake urine so they can pass a drug test for a nurse that has to witness it. So, they do whatever to survive and stay an addict. One thing is very true--they have to want to stop to actually do it. I know this from my mother. She was a drug addict and alcoholic. When she went to rehab and got a ride home, she had the person stop in front of a package store. They watched her walk inside.
I wish you luck and all the strength in the world. Please, watch your back. One suggestion: sleep somewhere safe and not around your son. I found Jay once going through my stuff when I got up to go to the bathroom. Be careful with your wedding ring, etc. They can look you right in the eye and probably try to slip off your ring. Don't nap around him either. I know he is your son. Jay's mother told me she always looked at the paper and was terrified of seeing a headline saying they found a body of a drug addict in Hartford.
Boy, they walk a dark path. Jay was beat up and his throat slit not good it was only a little line, but man, try your best to help him and then let it go. Tell him that God loves him and is with him. Good luck.
Peace and love to you.
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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My prayers are going with you, Patty. I had an addicted fiance. I know now that he never really loved me, I was a means to an end. He lived with me, stole from me (saying he was 'cleaning' my apartment when I caught him--yeah, cleaning me out!). We never had relations because he couldn't rise to the occasion, to say it in a nice way. Heroin does that--he was too relaxed for that.
Drug addicts are keen and I believe kind of psychic to money so be careful. When Jay was leaving my apartment for good, I hid my money under a bunch of my writing. He came out of the bathroom and looked right there. Now I hid that money before he was even inside. Then one time I wanted to give him a four-leaf clover I found (cause I thought he was really trying to stop his addition and it was for luck), when I opened my wallet to find it, he spotted the twenty I had tucked inside of it--how the hell did he see that? Now we are apart, and I hope to God he is okay, but I also know that they lie and lie and lie and lie again. They are experts at that.
Just to show you what I found out about a drug addicts desperation: I've read about a 'Whizzinator' that addict strap on that looks just like a penis. It has a vial of fake urine so they can pass a drug test for a nurse that has to witness it. So, they do whatever to survive and stay an addict. One thing is very true--they have to want to stop to actually do it. I know this from my mother. She was a drug addict and alcoholic. When she went to rehab and got a ride home, she had the person stop in front of a package store. They watched her walk inside.
I wish you luck and all the strength in the world. Please, watch your back. One suggestion: sleep somewhere safe and not around your son. I found Jay once going through my stuff when I got up to go to the bathroom. Be careful with your wedding ring, etc. They can look you right in the eye and probably try to slip off your ring. Don't nap around him either. I know he is your son. Jay's mother told me she always looked at the paper and was terrified of seeing a headline saying they found a body of a drug addict in Hartford.
Boy, they walk a dark path. Jay was beat up and his throat slit not good it was only a little line, but man, try your best to help him and then let it go. Tell him that God loves him and is with him. Good luck.
Peace and love to you.
Comment Written 08-May-2017
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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Hi Rasmine; thank you so much for your thoughtful words. I have been telling myself so many things. I know that I will need to take my valuables in the shower with me - I'm not taking much but there are a few things that I would hate to lose. Money is something I don't want him to have, but if it gets stolen, I can still manage.
I take your good thoughts and prayers with me - try to keep me in your thoughts for the week,
~patty~
Comment from Pearl Edwards
I do hope that your visit goes well Patty. I've never had any experience with this sort of situation but just stay safe and I hope you have some positive thoughts to write in your journal while you are away.
Sending positive thoughts with you and your son,
cheers,
valda
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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I do hope that your visit goes well Patty. I've never had any experience with this sort of situation but just stay safe and I hope you have some positive thoughts to write in your journal while you are away.
Sending positive thoughts with you and your son,
cheers,
valda
Comment Written 08-May-2017
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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Hi valda; thank you so much for the positive thoughts and kind words. My journal will be one way to keep up with my writing and to voice what goes on, without expressing myself out loud,
~patty~
Comment from rtobaygo
Good morning, Patty
A heart rendering story. The uncertainty you may face will test body and soul. It is difficult to see one's child in such a manner as this. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Take care and stay safe,
Ray
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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Good morning, Patty
A heart rendering story. The uncertainty you may face will test body and soul. It is difficult to see one's child in such a manner as this. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Take care and stay safe,
Ray
Comment Written 08-May-2017
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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Hi Ray; thank you so much for your kind thoughts and prayers. I will take them with me in my heart as I make this journey,
~patty~
Comment from Brett Matthew West
May 9?
Is this post old or is that supposed to be June 9?
Seems you have your hands full, but have taken precautions.
You never know what may happen with addicts.
Have you ever considered having him Baker Acted into rehab?
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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May 9?
Is this post old or is that supposed to be June 9?
Seems you have your hands full, but have taken precautions.
You never know what may happen with addicts.
Have you ever considered having him Baker Acted into rehab?
Comment Written 08-May-2017
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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Hi Brett; no - I leave tomorrow on May 9. Thank you for your good thoughts. I am hoping I can give him the information and have him make his own decision - but thank you for the thought about the Baker Act.
~patty~
Comment from Nikki-Nicole
Very interesting read.
This is about a mother's love for her child. No matter how old they get, they'll always be our babies.
Nice artwork: The image shown supports the writing. It looks like a great view.
--He needs all the love and support he can get. Addiction is a terrible thing that takes over one's life. I hope all goes well. Traveling mercy.
Thanks for sharing.
Good luck with your future writing.
-Nicole-
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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Very interesting read.
This is about a mother's love for her child. No matter how old they get, they'll always be our babies.
Nice artwork: The image shown supports the writing. It looks like a great view.
--He needs all the love and support he can get. Addiction is a terrible thing that takes over one's life. I hope all goes well. Traveling mercy.
Thanks for sharing.
Good luck with your future writing.
-Nicole-
Comment Written 08-May-2017
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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Hi Nicole; thank you so much for your well wishes for my trip. I appreciate your kind review of the piece and I will take all of you with me for support,
~patty~
Comment from Mabaker
I was once give something to think on. "When the pupil is ready the teacher will come." I attended so many AA meetings thinking it was my husbands problem until I realised I couldn't survive without my Serepax. Wow, wake up call and I owned up to NA where my life was headed, all the way to Hell. God guide you. Sincerely Anne.
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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I was once give something to think on. "When the pupil is ready the teacher will come." I attended so many AA meetings thinking it was my husbands problem until I realised I couldn't survive without my Serepax. Wow, wake up call and I owned up to NA where my life was headed, all the way to Hell. God guide you. Sincerely Anne.
Comment Written 08-May-2017
reply by the author on 08-May-2017
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Hi Anne; thank you so much for your kind words and thoughts. I will take your prayers with me,
~patty~
