Comment from Carol Hillebrenner

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You have a sad story, perhaps especially with the last husband who stole your money and probably some of your self-respect, as you wondered why you had ever taken up with him. I'm in Illinois, but I know the local welfare office usually has information about programs that pay your rent and utilities, at least for awhile. Do you have a dead husband who hasn't remarried. Sometimes you can collect part of their Social Security, especially if you didn't remarry since then. Unfortunately, you can't kill the last guy who stole your stuff if he isn't dead. YWCA and YMCA's sometimes have programs to help people. Some cities have funds for those that need help. Illinois also has townships that have funds to help people in their townships. Check for information at the public library if they have one. That's all the ideas I have. I'll try prayer for you.

 Comment Written 22-Jan-2025

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reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

Thank you for the read and the prayers. I'll check the library. I am getting some good ideas. Karen

Comment from jmdg1954

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Your story is a tough one. You've been through quite a bit in your years and $486 monthly doesn't go far.

I don't know your physical abilities, but have you looked for a job to supplement the SS dollars. I collect SS and work full time. Look for emp!it and the will fit your abilitjes. There is a lot of work out there, just have to search for it.

Good luck.
John

 Comment Written 22-Jan-2025

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reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

I can not drive anymore because of the spasms where come without warning. I can't sit for long or walk for stand up for long. I need to pee very often, and get diarrhea and have to wear a diaper. I don't think folks are going to line up to offer me work. Submissions to publishers and magazines require a fee for the most part. Surveys for the most part are a scam. Good for them, but lousy for you. I make about $100.00 a year.
Thanks again for your help. Karen

Comment from Iza Deleanu

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Hi Karen I totally understand your fears sometimes I felt under that spell too. At least you tried, to have a different life. I'm just preaching from my glass tower. I'm in Canada so I don't know anything about social programs from USA.

 Comment Written 21-Jan-2025

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reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

Thanks for your read. I am glad I finally let down my wall, and asked for help. I realized that a lot of people on here may have gone through this, and could give me good advice. I have faith that it will all work out. Karen

Comment from DonandVicki

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I wish I could help you with Ideas from California, but this state is messed up as far as helpful agencies. I will pray for you Karen. I pray several times a day. I'm so sorry that your husband treated you like that.

 Comment Written 21-Jan-2025

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reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

I thank you for the read and prayers. I believe they work. I think prayers are energy and they build up on each other. More than one person who was in the hospital said they could feel our prayers and their caregivers remarked on their swift recovery. So any and all prayers and good wishes are welcome. Karen

Comment from Wayne Fowler

Exceptional

Wow! Someone should pro bono a hit on your ex ... after squeezing out all his nickels and dimes.
I had a few things typed, but they were not helpful (Texas politics).
When I owned a mobile home park, some HUD recipients got their utilities paid as well.
But be prepared for all sorts of cuts these next few years.

 Comment Written 21-Jan-2025

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reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

I thank you for the read. And a Republican in office is always bad for social services. Thanks for you time. I will keep looking. Karen

Comment from Tom Horonzy

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Oh my!
Based on your positive releases I would never known
:-((((
I know nothing about programs so cannot be an aid
I applaud your bravery in sharing what you have
Go Red
May God be with you

 Comment Written 21-Jan-2025

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reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

I will take all the prayers and good wishes I can get. Thank you for the read. It finally occurred to be that a lot of folks in here have gone through the same stuff as me, and might know things and places that I don't. Any and all help is appreciated. Karen

Comment from Bill Schott

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I had no idea you were in this condition, Karen. Your last husband sounds like a fictional scumbag. I can't believe shits like him are not buried alive already. Also, sorry you live in Texas.

Sending you stuff,

You need a bachelors degree but no teaching experience.

 Comment Written 21-Jan-2025

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reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

Due to my I'll health, I never went to college, although I did read a lot of course books. I have the equivalent of several doctorates. I could not go, and back then, you could not do it from home. And, I doubt if a mere women back in 1972 would be considered anyway. I can not work an outside job anymore. I could give an hour or two a day to a job from my home, but no more. I cannot sit for long or stand for any length of time. I cannot walk far at all unless I am behind a shopping cart. I can last 30 minutes sometimes doing that! Love to you and yours. Karen

Comment from Michael Ludwinder

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Your story really touched me. The way you shared your struggles was so honest. It was powerful to read about how you've found strength despite everything you've been through. I can feel your determination to keep going. You've got this, and I'm sure brighter days are ahead! Keep going strong!

 Comment Written 21-Jan-2025

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reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

Thanks for the read. Any prayers or good wishes are great fully accepted. And, should you hear of any grants for redheaded women over the age of 60 with the silhouette of a fire plug, let me know. Karen

Comment from Alexandra Trovato

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I tried to send web addresses as resources for you. My review couldn't go through that way. I'm sorry you've been going through this. I'm not sure if I have an email for you but if so, I'll send the web resource information I found to you.

Please reach out. People are there to help, maybe connect you with a roommate aka holden girls. Reach b out because options are put there for you, I'm surei.

Love,

Alex

 Comment Written 21-Jan-2025

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reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

I sent my email to you. I finally snapped, that there were folks on here going through what I am going through. They might know stuff. Thanks for the read. Karen

reply by Alexandra Trovato on 22-Jan-2025

I got your email and will send links I find by email. The ones I tried to send here were deleted immediately.

I'll look for anything I'm Texas.

Alex

reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

Thank you so much. Karen

Comment from Dolly'sPoems

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Oh my goodness Karen, you have been through the mill with your illness and misfortune and I sincerely hope you are okay and can rise about your troubles. Go easy with the marajuana as it is addictive and can cause a lot of other health problems, love Dolly x x x

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 Comment Written 21-Jan-2025

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reply by the author on 22-Jan-2025

I don't have any. And marijuana is not addictive. But, like cigarettes it can become a nasty habit. If I did not live in Texas, I would be taking the jelled gummies. they have a type that provides pain relief without getting you high. I would like to be able to stand for more than 5 minutes. Karen