Everything Changed
That moment when I realized I didn't fit.22 total reviews
Comment from joann r romei
This was a great way of telling the reader about the unfairness and stereotyping of the sexes, I agree, who ever wants something should get it themselves and also ask if anyone else would like some,
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2023
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This was a great way of telling the reader about the unfairness and stereotyping of the sexes, I agree, who ever wants something should get it themselves and also ask if anyone else would like some,
Comment Written 13-Jan-2023
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2023
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Very sage advice. Never had a very good relationship with my grandmother after that but that was on her not me. Thank-you so much for this nice review. Gretchen
Comment from Mary Shifman
It's true that most of us live very different lives than our mothers did. My mother was a lot like your grandmother. Years ago she was appalled that I bought my husband's birthday cake instead of baking him one like a good wife should do. I just laughed and told her that it was a lot better than any I could make. Like you, my husband and I waited on each other because we wanted to.
reply by the author on 11-Jan-2023
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It's true that most of us live very different lives than our mothers did. My mother was a lot like your grandmother. Years ago she was appalled that I bought my husband's birthday cake instead of baking him one like a good wife should do. I just laughed and told her that it was a lot better than any I could make. Like you, my husband and I waited on each other because we wanted to.
Comment Written 11-Jan-2023
reply by the author on 11-Jan-2023
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That's funny about your mom and the cake. My mom told me to always hire a professional. Hence, I found out which bakery made the best cake by the time I was twelve. But I got grief for other things. It's what moms do. Lol. Thank you so much for this review and for sharing your experiences. Gretchen
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You are welcome.
Comment from Faith Williams
My eyes just about bugged out of my head when I read, "But he's the man. You need to practice serving." Oh, my goodness! Times may have changed, but sometimes things still don't always appear as they should. Rebellious little girls and women will always be needed.
Thanks for sharing!
reply by the author on 11-Jan-2023
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My eyes just about bugged out of my head when I read, "But he's the man. You need to practice serving." Oh, my goodness! Times may have changed, but sometimes things still don't always appear as they should. Rebellious little girls and women will always be needed.
Thanks for sharing!
Comment Written 11-Jan-2023
reply by the author on 11-Jan-2023
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I was definitely not a white gloves and party manners type of girl. I was a tomboy all the way. Lol. Thank you so much for this entertaining review. Gretchen
Comment from royowen
Oh yes, Jesus was most specific in His commandments of service, it is quite definitely equal, with possibly the husband being the head, his job is sacrifice to his family and to love his wife as Christ loved the church and died for her, death to self is the prime, but in equality. Love one another, serve one another, you think a lot like me, both on a journey, servants but not doormats, well done, blessings Roy
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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Oh yes, Jesus was most specific in His commandments of service, it is quite definitely equal, with possibly the husband being the head, his job is sacrifice to his family and to love his wife as Christ loved the church and died for her, death to self is the prime, but in equality. Love one another, serve one another, you think a lot like me, both on a journey, servants but not doormats, well done, blessings Roy
Comment Written 10-Jan-2023
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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Thank you. I appreciate this. Gretchen
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Most welcome
Comment from barbara.wilkey
I have a reviewer challenging me on exactly how men degrade women. To be the idea we have to wait on them is degrading. I told him, I'd answer his question around Thursday or Friday. My work is cut out for me. Thank you for sharing.
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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I have a reviewer challenging me on exactly how men degrade women. To be the idea we have to wait on them is degrading. I told him, I'd answer his question around Thursday or Friday. My work is cut out for me. Thank you for sharing.
Comment Written 10-Jan-2023
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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Not all men are pigs. There are just some men who ruin it for all. And it doesn't seem to phase them when you call them out. Good luck. Gretchen
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I've just discovered that. I hate men degrading women.
Comment from Sarah Robin
I enjoyed this post. You were brave to not follow Grandma's instructions. Good for you. Times have changed since I was a child. You and your mom were ahead of the times. Thanks for sharing this story. Sarah
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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I enjoyed this post. You were brave to not follow Grandma's instructions. Good for you. Times have changed since I was a child. You and your mom were ahead of the times. Thanks for sharing this story. Sarah
Comment Written 10-Jan-2023
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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My mom was one of the first women to wear a pantsuit in Richmond. One of my uncle's asked my dad why he would allow it. My dad just laughed and told him if he was brave enough to tell her no, have at it. Lol. I'm a lot like my mom. Thank you for this awesome review. Gretchen
Comment from Terry Broxson
Gretchen, an excellent memoir. Being a guy, I don't ever remember my girl cousin (same age) ever serving me at Grandma's. Grandma had three daughters. One married four times, one married eleven times, and then my mother married once for over fifty years.
My cousin's mom was the eleven times. Maybe her mom was overserving.
You should think about entering the "What I like best about a Man" contest. It might be interesting. Good job. Terry.
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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Gretchen, an excellent memoir. Being a guy, I don't ever remember my girl cousin (same age) ever serving me at Grandma's. Grandma had three daughters. One married four times, one married eleven times, and then my mother married once for over fifty years.
My cousin's mom was the eleven times. Maybe her mom was overserving.
You should think about entering the "What I like best about a Man" contest. It might be interesting. Good job. Terry.
Comment Written 10-Jan-2023
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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Eleven times?! I need my smelling salts. Please tell me she wasn't a widow each time. Lol. Thank you so much for your review and insights. Gretchen
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LOL, she was not a widow maker! Her daughter told me she only admitted to 11!
Comment from Rachelle Allen
I absolutely LOVE this! And the teacher in me wishes I had that little eight-year-old you among her students. I'd have loved your pluck. GREAT post, Gretchen...my favorite one yet, I do believe. (And you know how much I've always enjoyed your works.) Xo
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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I absolutely LOVE this! And the teacher in me wishes I had that little eight-year-old you among her students. I'd have loved your pluck. GREAT post, Gretchen...my favorite one yet, I do believe. (And you know how much I've always enjoyed your works.) Xo
Comment Written 10-Jan-2023
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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Thank you, Rachelle. I would have been a terrible student . Lol. Always daydreaming. A teachers nightmare. But I thank you for this. What happened to your post? Gretchen
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It's there, I HOPE!! Jeez! Did I get ANOTHER one deleted?! It's entitled "On...Cheating."
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Oh, no; I LOVE the daydreamers! They're the ones with true artistry in their souls. I can help re-direct their focus, but I can't help the non-daydreamers who are little automotons. Give me a daydreamers any day of the week!
Comment from John Ciarmello
We grew up in the same Era. I remember all too well my grandmother waiting on my gramps hand and foot and mom bending over backward to please my Dad. The only feeling I remember about witnessing this is I thought it odd that they couldn't get up and get what they desired.
You have brought the past back to me for a moment, Gretchen. A buried thought I would never have pondered otherwise. Best, JohnC
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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We grew up in the same Era. I remember all too well my grandmother waiting on my gramps hand and foot and mom bending over backward to please my Dad. The only feeling I remember about witnessing this is I thought it odd that they couldn't get up and get what they desired.
You have brought the past back to me for a moment, Gretchen. A buried thought I would never have pondered otherwise. Best, JohnC
Comment Written 10-Jan-2023
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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I was always the square peg. Lol. Thank you so much for this. Gretchen
Comment from Sankey
Good write up. I forget if you are from the South? They are even worse at rules and regulations and putting the girls down. Old granny was definitely a traditionalist.
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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Good write up. I forget if you are from the South? They are even worse at rules and regulations and putting the girls down. Old granny was definitely a traditionalist.
Comment Written 10-Jan-2023
reply by the author on 10-Jan-2023
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I was born and raised in Richmond, Virginia. It was very much a culture. Thanks so much for this terrific review. Gretchen
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Funny how in the Civil War General Lee was from Virginia that was supposed to be more North, I think, or perhaps there was a divide of North and South in Virginia but he felt he had to go with the Confederacy.
