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Aaron Milavec

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### Reflections on Kaia and on Dreams

Kaia lived at a time when civil divorces were unthinkable. In Kaia's village, marriages and divorces were granted or denied by their local rabbi who knew the lives and struggles of his neighbors and who interpreted "God's will" for them.

#1 Does Kaia's religious system generally provide a superior arrangement because it offered a more personal, flexible, and close-at-hand judgment regarding her domestic problems? Or does our system of impersonal civil divorces do more to secure the general good? [Offer examples.]

#2 What is the wisdom and the folly of the rabbi's refusal, "Do the best with what God gave you"?

#3 Bruised by a Jewish family tradition that clearly tolerated some wife-beating, Kaia managed to find a way to exploit the weaknesses of her religious system in order to get the divorce she so urgently needed. Is her public confrontation of her rabbi "commendable" or "scandalous" or a mixture of both? Why does her rabbi finally relent?

#4 Interpretation of dreams has a long-standing place within Jewish circles. Consider the case of Joseph interpreting the dreams of the Pharoah (Genesis 41) or the instance of Tevya in "Fiddler on the Roof" using his dream to persuade his wife to allow her daughter to enter into a love-match with the taylor. In your own personal tradition, when and how do you allow dreams to become a source of reliable guidance for your personal life decisions?

#5 What would you be inclined to say is the reliable content of my dream of Kaia?

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