By BethShelby
My life story is not that of someone special, but it has one thing going for it, It is unique. We all have lives that are unique. No one’s experience is exactly like that of anyone else. Since my journey started quite a few years back, I may have lived through a bit more history than most. Where I lived, what my parents were like, my lack of siblings, my friends, and everything I’ve encountered makes me different from you.
I’ve noticed that I’ve written quite a bit about my younger years. Many of these stories are scattered throughout my portfolio. These stories don’t fit with others I’ve written, so they deserve a category of their own. I think they deserve a prologue. I’ll put the older stories under the tentative heading of Rooted in Dixie. From time to time, I will add new stories.
Let me relate a few dry facts:
My life began in September of the late thirties during the Roosevelt years. I was born on the outskirts of a small town in Mississippi. I took my first breath in my parents' home, because in those days, many people were born at home. Doctors were willing to make house calls. My mom was a twenty-two-year-old homemaker, and she was married to my dad, who was a twenty-seven-year-old store clerk. They lived on fifteen acres of land and in a house that had no electricity and no indoor plumbing. They had been married five years already, but I was the first and only child that would ever grace their home. They had just lived through the Great Depression, and like most of the people of those years, they were struggling to make a living and were lucky that one of them had a job, even though the paycheck was small.
There was an extended family. Just over the rise of a small hill and joining our land, my dad’s father and mother and his maiden aunt and single uncle lived in a much older house. My widowed maternal grandmother was a part-time resident of our home. Her husband had died the year before, and she lived among her four children, trying not to stay too long with any one of them, so as not to wear out her welcome. Dad, like me, was an only child. Mom was the baby of a blended family. Her father already had ten children when he, a widower, married her mother, a widow with two children. Together they had two more, Mom’s brother, Uncle Newman, and then my mother, Lucille. Mom had eleven living half-siblings. One had died before she was born.
This book will contain stories I’ve written about my life from the time I was born until I reached my teenage years. Since I’m already writing a biography, starting from when I met my future husband at age fifteen, this will cover the years that elapsed before that time. Maybe at times, some of the stories may overlap. I did have another life when we were dating that didn’t involve him. This book may also contain stories that belong to my parents or my grandparents, who also share my Southern roots.
I would welcome anyone who would to care to join me on this journey.
Author Notes | This is a second book I'm writing so that my children will have a sense of their own Southern roots. I'd like them to know what life was like in the years before they became a part of my life. |
By BethShelby
Author Notes | This story is true as told to me by my parents. It takes place a couple of years before I was born. |
By BethShelby
After four years of marriage, Lucille, who was destined to be my mom, began to believe that she might never become a mother. When she brought up the subject, my future dad always found a reason to talk about something else. He had been an only child, and never having been around children, he wasn’t sure that he ever wanted to be around one. Maybe he thought it would mean less attention for him.
When they got married, a friend who ran a drug store gave him a case of condoms as a gag gift, but my dad took the gift seriously. He didn’t think they could afford a child, and he wished that Lucille would quit bringing it up.
Lucille was the baby of an enormous family, and being alone all day felt strange. In spite of all the work involved with running a home, growing vegetables, and dealing with chickens and cows, she was lonely when Glover spent long hours working in town. It looked as if there would never be more than the two of them.
Nevertheless, something went wrong, or maybe in her case, something went right. One day, before Lucille realized she was pregnant, she was looking out her kitchen window and saw, what must have been a vision of a little girl playing in the sand beneath the china berry tree. She knew immediately that the child’s name was Beth, and that her prayers would be answered. Shortly after that, Glover had to get used to the idea that, ready or not, I was on the way.
It sounds almost Biblical, doesn’t it? "The promised child--seen in a vision." No wonder, they handled me like I would break.
When I arrived, Dad changed his mind about not wanting a child. He felt like he’d accomplished something astounding. Unless you are an only child, you might not understand the attention that a new addition gets from their doting parents.
Everyone always says, while wearing that I know how that goes look, “Oh, so you’re an only child. I’ll bet you were spoiled.”
I hang my head, feeling like I need to apologize for being who I am, but it isn’t my fault. I didn’t plan it, and I would have gladly traded all that attention for a sibling or two, if I’d had a choice.
Not only was I the only child, I was also the only grandchild, and I got even more attention from that source. And Dad ‘s unmarried aunt was pretty fascinated with me, as well.
My mother and dad seemed to think they had produced something exceptional, and they wanted to show me off at every opportunity. I basked in the attention and did my best to entertain when called upon to do so. They trained me the way someone would train a pet monkey. Before I could even talk, my dad had me braying like a donkey, barking like a dog, mooing like a cow, and doing all sorts of things to make a complete fool out of myself. Of course at that stage, I assumed these were skills that needed to be perfected if I was to get on in this strange world into which I had so recently become a part. Everyone laughed and thought it was cute so, I hammed it up. These days, you can just buy a toy that will make all those noises.
My mother had visions of me becoming a vocalist. She tried teaching me songs like ‘Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star’ and ‘Mary Had a Little Lamb', but apparently, I had no talent in this direction. I’m sure this was a big disappointment for her. By the time I was three, Mom realized I would probably never make it in the music field. I remember hearing her sadly remark that “Beth can’t carry a tune in a bucket.” I couldn’t imagine why one would want to carry a tune in a bucket, but after studying my sand pail for a while, I concluded that she was probably right.
At that point, Mother began teaching me nursery rhymes to recite for any captive audience that happened to visit. I didn’t disappoint her this time. At least, I was blessed with a quick memory, and I could parrot these little verses quite easily. She decided these were beneath my talent so we went to longer and more difficult pieces from poets like Longfellow and Tennyson. This went well for a while, until I began to tire of all the recitations, and I realized the praises slowed down after the first fifteen minutes of my performance, and the people, who were obliged to listen, began to have a glazed look in their eyes.
Lest you think I got twenty-four-hour attention, let me assure you, that was not the case. My parents had their hands full making enough money to keep us afloat. Mom planted a garden and tended it. She milked cows and slaughtered chickens. She cooked, canned, planted flowers, mowed the lawn, washed, ironed, and scrubbed floors much of every day. I followed her around like a well-trained puppy, waiting to be fed and changed.
One day after I was sporting big girl panties, I had an accident. Mom was working in the garden, too busy to attend my needs. I announced my plight and was told to take off my wet clothes and wait till she finished what she was doing. I was an obedient child, so I stripped everything off and left my clothes piled in the middle of the living room floor.
Knowing this was going to take a while, I climbed onto the feather bed, sandwiched myself between the pillows, pulled the spread neatly back over my head, and fell sound asleep.
When Mom came from the garden and saw all of my clothes in a pile in the middle of the floor, she totally forgot my potty accident and assumed the worst. The whole neighborhood was called in to search for the kidnapped child. After many hours, someone snatched the covers off the bed to find a nude baby still sleeping.
Again I was the center of attention, and this time, I had no idea what I’d done to earn all those kisses.
By BethShelby
Two months into my fifth grade school term, Miss Butts announced that it was our grade’s turn to produce a class play for all of the elementary students' weekly gathering in the auditorium.
“How many of you would like to have a part in our play? Raise your hands.”
Hands shot up all over the room, along with a chorus of “I would! I would! Pick me!”
My hand went up along with all the rest. Granted, it was mostly us girls. We all wanted to be stars. The boys wanted more details, before they committed themselves to something that might involve memory work.
“Okay, that’s enough. I’ve decided we’re going to do The Golden Goose. Is everyone familiar with that story?”
A couple of hands went up, as well as some groans.”That’s a kid's story,” Jo Anne complained. “Can’t we do something like, Cat on the Hot Tin Roof or My Friend Flicker?”
“My word! No! We’re not doing a Broadway Play. It has to be short, and something a first grader can understand. What’s wrong with you people? I’ve decided on the play. Let’s assign some parts. Some of the parts have more lines to learn than others."
"Warren, how about you being the younger brother, who is kind to the elf in the forest and is rewarded with the golden goose?”
“No! I don’t want no part. I’ve got a goose at home. I’ll provide the goose. Let Bill be the younger brother. He likes to talk.”
“Well, I don’t know. I hadn’t planned on a real goose. That might be disruptive. We’ll see. How about it Bill? Do you want to be the younger brother?”
Bill shrugged. “I guess so. Why not?”
It turned out, most of the parts in this story were for boys. Our teacher was tired of girls being the only ones who wanted to participate.
She assigned the parts for a father, three sons, a king, an innkeeper, a priest, an elf, and a man who never got enough to drink. That used up all the boys except Warren.
The girls' parts were three daughters, a mother, and the princess who never laughed, until she saw everyone parading around stuck to a golden goose. Of course, all of us girls wanted the role of the princess. Jo Anne managed to get that part.
I was assigned the part of the first daughter, who would try to steal a feather from the golden goose. I had a few lines, but mostly, I would wear a long dress with a white apron and parade around holding onto the tail of the golden goose. Not the greatest of roles, but maybe I could figure out a way to ham it up.
The day of the play arrived, and we came to school in our costumes. At least, I had a role. The girls who didn’t get parts would stand at the doors of the auditorium and hand out our printed programs. Warren arrived at school carrying a coop with a real live gander.
The teacher looked at him with a worried look. “Are you sure we should do this, Warren? What if this thing gets loose?”
“Oh, he’ll be fine. He’s very tame. I carry him around all the time.” He whispered to me, “When you catch hold of his tail, twist it. He’ll honk and that will get a big laugh.”
The play proceeded. I said my lines and held the tail lightly. I decided to wait until we were in front of the princess, and a parade of people were stuck behind me. It would be Jo Anne’s big moment, when she would stop crying and start to laugh. Maybe the goose and I could get a laugh, as well.
The line behind me wound around on the stage, and at just the right moment, I gave the gander’s tail one hard twist. The goose was startled with my sudden assault on his rear. He spread his wings and honked loudly, as he attempted to escape. A loose stream of golden goose poop sprayed me, head to toe. The entire auditorium erupted in streaks of laughter.
Much to my chagrin, I had stolen the show after all.
By BethShelby
August in South Mississippi felt like the doors of Hell had been left wide open. The heat was so thick and oppressive you could see it. The corn had shriveled from lack of rain and the vegetation was coated with a thick film of red dirt. The air smelled tired and lifeless. Not even a trace of a breeze stirred.
Zed sat on the ground, leaning against the trunk of a sweetgum tree, fanning his face with a sweat-drenched straw hat and sipping tepid water from his gallon fruit jar. He kept swatting at a horsefly, which was trying to settle on his nose.
Forty-two summers he had been on this earth, and they didn't get any easier. Gray was already showing around the sides of his greasy, poorly trimmed, black hair. His skin was starting to feel like raw leather. He wasn't cut out for farming, but it was all he knew how to do. He'd been following a plow since he was eight years old. The family had never had enough cash or credit to buy a tractor. His dad and his grandpa before him, on back as far as anyone knew, had always farmed and always barely managed to scrape by.
Zed dropped out of school in the ninth grade after his daddy got kicked in the head by a mule. The old man's mind had never been right since. He started drinking heavily and a year later, died of liver complications. Zed didn't miss school since he never had been much of a student anyway. Without an education, about the only work he could get was at the chicken processing plant, and that didn't appeal to him. The truth was the idea of working for somebody else was just plain scary. He liked his independence too much to kowtow to anybody. It was bad enough having to take flack off his old lady. She was always bitching about something she wanted done around the house.
He'd married Annie Ruth the year he turned nineteen, mostly because she was the only female who'd ever shown any interest, and marrying seemed the right thing to do. His mama told him Annie Ruth was a good worker, and he could do worse. They had two babies, but neither of them had lived. The doctor said Annie Ruth didn't need to get pregnant again, so they had her tubes tied.
"One of these days" Zed told himself, "I'm gonna pack up, leave this place, and never look back." He hoisted his gaunt frame to a standing position, pulled a soiled handkerchief from his overall pocket, and swiped it across his brow. He smoothed back his hair, put on his hat, and, he reached for the plow handles. "Yep, one of these days... But not today... Today, I gotta finish plowing the back forty. I sure hope we get some rain tomorrow."
Author Notes | I wrote this not so much to cause you to identify or be drawn to the character but as Adewpearl put it-A slice of life look at the kind of life many many people live - a life of quiet desperation. Tied to one's life, no matter how inglorious it is, limited in one's choices, dreaming of ways to escape but needing to spend all one's energy on just surviving the work of another day. |
By BethShelby
Author Notes |
Begin your non-fiction autobiographical story or poem with the words 'I remember...' Complete the sentence conveying a moment, an object, a feeling, etc. This does not have to be a profound memory, but should allow readers insight into your feelings, observations and/or thoughts. Use at least 100, but not more than 1,000 words. The count should be stated in your author notes. 426 words
Thanks to mashdatbul68w for the art work 426 words. |
By BethShelby
When I was in seventh grade in the fifties, my small-town school had only about thirty or forty students in each grade. My class was one of the smaller ones. Each year, there would be a group of new students joining our class. Usually, the amount who had moved away, dropped out, or was demoted kept the class number more or less constant.
When the semester began in late August that year, several of the students were much older. Most of us, who had managed to pass our classes each year, were just emerging from our preteens. One of the new students that year was seventeen and another was eighteen. Both were girls, but the difference in them ended there. Zettie Belle, at seventeen, was pretty and vivacious.
The older girl, Maureen, was shy and withdrawn. She wore thick glasses and held her head down avoiding eye contact. Her voice was so low it was necessary to strain to hear her words. Her hands trembled when she used them to write. Her handwriting was shaky and so faint it was barely visible.
It was apparent neither of these girls should have been in seventh grade. Zettie Belle didn’t seem to mind being among younger students and soon let it be known, she was behind from lack of attendance rather than stupidity. Her family had just moved into our area. She could have chosen not to attend, but it was either school or get a job, and she chose not to work.
Maureen had simply been unable to do the class work, and year after year, she had been held back. I was surprised to learn that she lived in our area. I’d just not noticed her before. Maureen’s parents had died when she was very young. Both had suffered from mental problems and had likely passed some of their problems down to their only daughter. She lived with an unmarried aunt, who had her own share of problems and resented being stuck with her sister’s child.
Maureen stayed to herself and tried not to attract attention. None of us attempted to communicate with her. We were all concerned about our own standing, and likely, afraid something about this pathetic creature might rub off.
Zettie Belle, on the other hand, was interesting. She had a certain style about her that drew us in. We soon learned she was a talented artist. During class, instead of paying attention, she was busy doing pencil sketches of pretty girls and other things. We were impressed and wanted to learn how to draw like her. She was flattered by our attention and eager to have us watch her draw.
That year for the first time ever, our school had hired a male teacher fresh out of college to teach seventh grade. He had gotten into a career he wasn’t capable of handling. He had no idea how to keep discipline with a class of thirty energetic seventh-graders. I don’t think any of us learned anything of value during the school year.
However, we learned plenty of other things our young minds could have done without knowing. We learned, during tests, if we didn’t know the answers, we could copy from each other’s papers or from notes or our textbooks. We learned we didn’t need to pay attention during class or study to make A’s or B’s. We learned passing notes in class would never be challenged. We learned there were no consequences for cheating.
Zettie Belle, soon tired of being our art teacher, and decided we might find sex education more interesting. In the days before television, sex information was considered taboo for young teens. Most of our parents weren’t comfortable discussing the subject. Most of us weren’t comfortable asking questions of our parents. We would likely have been better off with some rudimentary facts, because, once in a while, someone got pregnant without knowing anything other than “they were ruined for life.” This was the curse mothers declared to be the fate of those who had a child out of wedlock.
The sex subject didn’t bother Zettie Belle. What we got from her wasn’t the helpful facts we needed. She brought a stack of typewritten filthy stories to school which she claimed were written by her brother who was in service. These shocking tales were passed from student to student and read behind our open textbooks. Maybe everyone wasn’t as naïve as I was, but what I read was inconceivable to my childlike brain. The papers were passed to Maureen, not because she was one of us, but to see how she would handle it. She blushed and dropped her head even lower.
No one attempted to monitor the new teacher or offer him any help. He wasn’t accepted among the other teachers, who seemed shocked he spent his breaks smoking cigarettes in his car rather than joining them in the teacher's lounge. When the school year ended in May, he realized teaching wasn’t his calling and moved on.
Zettie Belle dropped out of school and joined the military. Maureen’s aunt decided to have her committed to a mental asylum. Those places didn’t seem to know how to cope with mental problems in the fifties. It was a time when lobotomies were possible as a form of treatment. Around this time, President Kennedy’s sister was given a lobotomy with her father, Joe Kennedy’s, approval.
Maureen’s life was a haunting tragedy. I could only imagine what things must have been like in her troubled world. I was ashamed that I hadn’t reached out to her and tried to offer friendship. I simply hadn’t known how to respond to someone like her. When I learned, a short time later, she had gotten pregnant in the mental institution and had died in childbirth the horror of what happened with her, caused me many sleepless nights.
Times have changed a lot since the fifties. Some of us look back with rose colored glasses and call them the “good old days.” In some ways, times haven’t changed for the better, but those days had their share of problems as well. As far as our class was concerned, it wasn’t a year any of us could remember with pride. Perhaps our conception of how bad things are depends on our own perspective.
By BethShelby
I always found new situations a bit intimidating. Going from eighth grade into high school was no cause for a panic attack. Nevertheless, the first day found butterflies flitting around in my stomach and the tightness in my throat came with a bout of nausea. I tried assuring myself it was no big deal. I would have many of my classes with the same kids as last year. The idea this change might be awkward for me persisted. For the first time, some of my classes would be with those in higher grades. I didn’t really know those kids, but I was pretty sure there were bullies among them. I’d seen kids being teased by older kids. The possibility of that happening to me resulted in a sleepless night.
The building where our classes would be held was old. The hallway lined with black metal lockers, was long and dark when the doors to the classrooms were closed. Years before when I was much younger, I’d gotten lost in that hallway while looking for the room my private piano lesson was in. I’d been in that hallway when the bell rang. Calling it a bell was a misnomer. It erupted like the clanging of an emergency alarm. Doors shot open on both sides and kids twice my size, that looked like an army of giants emerged racing toward the lockers. The sounds of chaos erupted with everyone talking at once, I hugged the wall, fearful of being trampled to death. It was one of the most frightening experiences of my life.
In spite of my dread of the hallway, now that I’d grown at least a foot taller, it wasn’t as bad as my memory had it pictured. The first day of high school went better after I managed to spot some friends from last year. They seemed as on edge as I was. We assembled in the auditorium and divided by grades. Then we were sent to a homeroom where we were given a list of classes to choose from. This would be our first year to change classes each period. Adjusting to many new teachers, rather than just one, might be a problem. My mind was busy creating new things to worry about.
By the end of the week, I’d mostly gotten the hang of things and started to relax. Nothing was quite as traumatizing as I’d imagined it would be. For me, the most shocking thing was some of the girls I’d known since first grade had matured over the summer and gone from kids to young women whose anatomy seemed to have changed. They wore tight skirts and sweaters showing off new curves. Some had on bright red lipstick. My mom would have freaked out, if I’d tried leaving the house like that. I felt like time had moved on and left me behind at the kids' table.
Most of the teachers in the classes I’d selected were pleasant enough, but the librarian was a different story. She was a stocky but short lady who wore a stern expression and tolerated no talking or noise of any kind. When she spoke, her voice sounded like a low snarl. With a finger to her lips, she would hiss, “Be quiet,” to anyone who dared speak aloud. The library was a required class period for an hour each day. It was listed as study hall. In spite of my love of books, I hated going into that room. I didn’t dare check out a book for the dread of having to go near her.
There was a poster on the library wall concerning an upcoming art contest. Our school didn’t offer art classes, but I’d always been interested in art. The problem was the librarian was in charge of the contest, and if one wanted to compete, they would need to get instructions from her. I was so terrified of her I couldn’t bring myself to go near her. She might tell me this contest was for real artists, and I should do my homework and leave art contests to the seniors.
I couldn’t get thoughts of the contest off my mind. It occurred to me if she only knew I could draw, maybe she would approach me. If anything was accidently dropped on the floor. She always went around picking it up and looking at it. I figured she was looking for evidence that someone had done something that required discipline. Maybe I could draw something that might impress her and accidentally drop it. I’d have to tolerate the chance I might get scolded for littering, but I decided to gather my courage and take a shot.
My devious plan worked perfectly. I drew a picture on the back of a test marked with an A+ and my name neatly written at the top. As I got up and moved toward the bookshelves the paper slipped gently to the floor. Her eagle eye was watching. Out of the corner of my eye I watched her leave her desk and pick up the paper and study it. She walked to where I was standing and looking over the book titles.
“Did you drop this paper?” she asked.
“Oh, I’m sorry. It’s just an old paper I was doodling on. I’ll put it in the trash.”
“You drew this? It’s quite good. We have an art contest coming up. I think you should enter it. The theme is Americanism. Will you let me sign you up?
I was shaking, but my wish had come true, and she was nicer than I had expected. I went home and composed a picture of a soldier standing at attention with an unfurled flag in the background. On the day of the contest, there were a lot of pictures tacked around the walls of the library. Mine was the only one from the freshman class. It was also the only one that had a blue ribbon attached to it. I’d won the twenty-dollar prize. I’m not sure mine was the best art, but the others were all scenery from around America. Maybe the judges liked my theme.
Things changed from that day on. Ms. Edwards thought she owned me. She asked me to make weekly posters for the library promoting various books. There was a small office space across from the library which contained a table large enough on which to lay out a poster board. She gave me that for my office and said I should work there each day instead of going to study hall. Not only was it my job to make library posters, I had to make them for the football parades and other school functions. This suited me just fine. I had my own private office for the next four years while I was in high-school.
She found all sorts of projects for me. One day she decided I needed to do a chalk talk for the high school assembly. This was not what I’d signed up for. I didn’t even know what a chalk talk was. She happened to have a book on them. She expected me to stand in front of the entire high school and draw on a poster sized board using an easel and to make a talk while doing it. All my fears I thought I’d managed to overcome came rushing back. No amount of protest could get me out of it. She was convinced I could handle it.
“Just work out what you plan to say, and I’ll provide you with an easel,” she told me. The book she gave me described the talks which seemed a bit like doing a magic show. In one of the drawings I was to do, I had to tell a story about a miser while drawing money bags with magic markers. The sheet I would draw on would have another poster board behind it. Between the two sheets would be a hidden pocket containing money. After telling the story, I would take a knife and split the bag allowing the money to fall out. I even had to draw and cut out the fake money.
Things might have gone smoothly if Ms. Edwards had gotten me an artist’s easel. Instead, she obtained a light-weight aluminum easel from the local florist shop designed to display a wreath. Not only was I terrified over having to stand on stage to tell the story while drawing, but the second I put pressure on the easel it starting collapsing. It was like being in the middle of a nightmare. There was no way I could pull this off without being the laughing stock of the school. If there had been a chance to rehearse this debacle, maybe the problem would have emerged earlier.
Thankfully, a cute high school senior good-Samaritan, sitting on the front row, saw my problem and decided to join the show. He jumped up on the stage quickly and grabbed the easel and held it in place while I did my thing. I’m glad there was no recording of the program, because I don’t think I would have had the nerve to watch it. I went through my whole performance in a state of numb shock.
Everyone gasped in surprise when I ripped open the money bags and the dollars fell out. People came to me later to claim I’d put on a good show. I had trouble believing them and put their accolades down to a generous dose of sympathy. I’ve never been so relieved to have my time in the spotlight over. I can’t imagine what I might have done if no one had come to my rescue. Ms. Edwards assured me that I’d done well, and she was pleased. I hope I thanked my helper, but I may not have. The trance I’d put myself into lasted a few days, but I did recover feeling a bit braver for having survived.
High school is just a training ground for life. Over the years, I’ve faced situations in which I might have panicked had I not already realized the trials we all face which seem so daunting at the moment aren’t all that important in the overall scheme of things. They’re never quite as bad as we perceive them to be at the time they are happening.
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