Geoffrey's Musings.
Viewing comments for Chapter 1 "Energy In Hugs"A book of Stories, Essays and Poetry.
47 total reviews
Comment from oliver818
I think you've made some really nice points here. Things are improving and my dad was less distant than his dad who was a blow I of ice to most people, although ire sweet with us.
You say it's in your autobiography but also here as a stand alone piece. I think it works fine in both ways. Cheers.
reply by the author on 13-Jan-2021
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I think you've made some really nice points here. Things are improving and my dad was less distant than his dad who was a blow I of ice to most people, although ire sweet with us.
You say it's in your autobiography but also here as a stand alone piece. I think it works fine in both ways. Cheers.
Comment Written 13-Jan-2021
reply by the author on 13-Jan-2021
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Thanks mate look for more recent with funny money on em if still going.
Comment from sammielwf
Sankey,
This was an interesting piece to read. It was my introduction to you as writer- because I had never met you through a work or a review.
I am glad that I came to your portfolio and found your piece
Energy in Hugs.
I enjoyed the flow and rhythm of your writing Sankey.....natural and pictorial. The reader can see the story unfolding before them and get invested in reading until the outcome is reached.
The subject matter of the poem I agree with- hugging be it grandma, grandpa, sis, ,bro or mom and dad- shows of genuine affection and helps build a foundation of love for years to come.
Sammielwf
reply by the author on 02-Dec-2020
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Sankey,
This was an interesting piece to read. It was my introduction to you as writer- because I had never met you through a work or a review.
I am glad that I came to your portfolio and found your piece
Energy in Hugs.
I enjoyed the flow and rhythm of your writing Sankey.....natural and pictorial. The reader can see the story unfolding before them and get invested in reading until the outcome is reached.
The subject matter of the poem I agree with- hugging be it grandma, grandpa, sis, ,bro or mom and dad- shows of genuine affection and helps build a foundation of love for years to come.
Sammielwf
Comment Written 02-Dec-2020
reply by the author on 02-Dec-2020
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AMEN Sammie thanks for coming by and going to a rewardless post. Hope I can get around to all you new reviewers' stuff soon.
Comment from lalajovanoski
Hello friend I very much enjoyed reading this essay that you have beautifully written. I find it to be very personable and the flow is very nice and smooth there's a lot of good content here and I can feel your emotions. Thank you for sharing this God bless you. Love Lala
reply by the author on 24-Jun-2017
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Hello friend I very much enjoyed reading this essay that you have beautifully written. I find it to be very personable and the flow is very nice and smooth there's a lot of good content here and I can feel your emotions. Thank you for sharing this God bless you. Love Lala
Comment Written 24-Jun-2017
reply by the author on 24-Jun-2017
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Thanks Lala for your lovely review. I need to get my gif Siggy Dean Kuch made for me on here to share again
Comment from Ulla
Him Sankey, so right you are. Showing affection and more important meaning it is a most important thing for the human well-being. I so agree with what you've written here. All the best. Ulla:)))
reply by the author on 23-Jun-2017
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Him Sankey, so right you are. Showing affection and more important meaning it is a most important thing for the human well-being. I so agree with what you've written here. All the best. Ulla:)))
Comment Written 23-Jun-2017
reply by the author on 23-Jun-2017
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Thanks, Ulla. I am aware of fake affection. Some American women are a bit guilty of that some time. Gushy kind of "put on" affection. Awful! Thanks for the great review.
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I know exactly what you're saying. It's so fake. :))
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Yep mate, for shore. A bit off track there are those who overdo the perfume and stuff. A friend of mine on Facebook is actually allergic to perfume!
Comment from Caressa_08
Yes, I agree with every word of your philosophy about how when we were growing up it was different I believe than today, though, too, a family should be allowed to give each other hugs, or show their affection to one another without having to worry about what society thinks...And too, in a church setting, people there can be thought of a family in Christ, a fellowship that they have a shared bond in which they can relate, and that a hug, a sign of love, and a reassurance...provides an energy we all need... be it at church, in our own homes or even in public setting to help us emotionally carry on in this world.
Just wish that I had a six to give to this piece of yours...Caressa_08
reply by the author on 23-Jun-2017
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Yes, I agree with every word of your philosophy about how when we were growing up it was different I believe than today, though, too, a family should be allowed to give each other hugs, or show their affection to one another without having to worry about what society thinks...And too, in a church setting, people there can be thought of a family in Christ, a fellowship that they have a shared bond in which they can relate, and that a hug, a sign of love, and a reassurance...provides an energy we all need... be it at church, in our own homes or even in public setting to help us emotionally carry on in this world.
Just wish that I had a six to give to this piece of yours...Caressa_08
Comment Written 23-Jun-2017
reply by the author on 23-Jun-2017
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Thanks Sis no worries I am pleased to say it made All Time Best which is beautiful. Thanks for the lovely review.
Comment from AnnieDawn
You really hit the jackpot with this writing. Or the nail on the head if that is more appropriate...lol. I am amazed at how well you put into words what most of us are thinking on the subject of hugs and affection. Well done again my friend.
reply by the author on 22-Jun-2017
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You really hit the jackpot with this writing. Or the nail on the head if that is more appropriate...lol. I am amazed at how well you put into words what most of us are thinking on the subject of hugs and affection. Well done again my friend.
Comment Written 22-Jun-2017
reply by the author on 22-Jun-2017
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Thanks Sis. I was so glad God brought Louise into my life. I miss her so much begin in hospital for nearly 7 weeks now. pray for her please. Some ideas are coming up for her to come home for a while.
Comment from MelB
It does seem to be a lost art, the act of hugging a child or spouse even. My husband's family doesn't hug at all. I made the mistake of trying to hug his dad once. I was informed Brown's don't hug! Never did that again! I think I read somewhere that it takes at least 8 touches a day for a kid to feel loved, like hand on the shoulder, hug, pat on the back, etc.
reply by the author on 22-Jun-2017
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It does seem to be a lost art, the act of hugging a child or spouse even. My husband's family doesn't hug at all. I made the mistake of trying to hug his dad once. I was informed Brown's don't hug! Never did that again! I think I read somewhere that it takes at least 8 touches a day for a kid to feel loved, like hand on the shoulder, hug, pat on the back, etc.
Comment Written 21-Jun-2017
reply by the author on 22-Jun-2017
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Interesting thought about 8 touches a day. Might write that down,thanks Sis.
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If I remember correctly, it came from The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. It is for the person whose love language is of course, touch.
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Thanks for that. Have you met Meaghan james? She has another name in hereI am friends with her on Face book?
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Yes! We are fans of each other and friends on FB. We also published our books at the same place.
Comment from Ben Colder
Very good take on the subject. You are right about certain people have never learned to give of themselves. These people are normally stingy and self-centered. Best to you Sankey.
reply by the author on 21-Jun-2017
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Very good take on the subject. You are right about certain people have never learned to give of themselves. These people are normally stingy and self-centered. Best to you Sankey.
Comment Written 21-Jun-2017
reply by the author on 21-Jun-2017
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Thanks bro so true. Mother in law is very self orientated. I feel like everything she does she thinks helps her in Pergatory(no such thong, of course) longer. We have got them under the sound of the gospel a number of times to no avail.Thanks bro.
Comment from Mustang Patty
It is so true that affection between people is very important. Hugs are so important to well being. In a world where 'touching' is sometimes frowned upon, and showing too much affection is barely tolerated, it is important to remember that our families need to have someone to show them love and affection. I hugged my own kids a lot - but I rarely got hugs and kisses from my own mom. I'm not entirely sure what the reason was.
Good essay,
~patty~
reply by the author on 21-Jun-2017
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It is so true that affection between people is very important. Hugs are so important to well being. In a world where 'touching' is sometimes frowned upon, and showing too much affection is barely tolerated, it is important to remember that our families need to have someone to show them love and affection. I hugged my own kids a lot - but I rarely got hugs and kisses from my own mom. I'm not entirely sure what the reason was.
Good essay,
~patty~
Comment Written 21-Jun-2017
reply by the author on 21-Jun-2017
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Thanks Patty, as I commented I even remember my Nanna quoting that old saying "children should be seen and not heard and I feel there is a connection there with resistance to affection. However, I still remember Nanna was affectionate as was my Mum (Nanna's daughter.) Go figure, huh.
Comment from BeasPeas
Hi Sankey. I do believe that hugs are a healing thing. Some families don't hug. The physical touch is a way to let us know that we are not alone in the world. I love your suggestion that dads hug and kiss their children. Thank you for sharing. Marilyn
reply by the author on 21-Jun-2017
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Hi Sankey. I do believe that hugs are a healing thing. Some families don't hug. The physical touch is a way to let us know that we are not alone in the world. I love your suggestion that dads hug and kiss their children. Thank you for sharing. Marilyn
Comment Written 21-Jun-2017
reply by the author on 21-Jun-2017
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Thanks, Marilyn, looks like this hit a wonderful chord with a lot of people. God Bless.
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Thanks, Marilyn, looks like this hit a wonderful chord with a lot of people. God Bless.
