I had a Dream by Judith Ann |
I still identify as a widow, even years into this lonesome season. I struggle to remember the partnership which once defined me. Many questions haunt my thinking. For almost five years, I contemplated the past, those years before 'we', became 'me'. I ask myself if my season of grief is coming to an end. Am I allowed to be happy again?
What do I do with the dream we shared as a couple? Should I build a new dream? I can only speak from my own experience, my own life, and I am praying these words to speak into your life. My husband Dave, visualized a retirement lived out in the north woods of Wisconsin. His dream included a cabin tucked away from all the busyness of the world. He longed for the day when his life held no more deadlines and the hours spent fishing, hunting, rebuilding motorcycles defined retirement. A beautiful fantasy lived in my heart too, but my image did not look anything like the cabin in the woods scene. No fishing poles or guns or motorcycles dotted the horizon. A view out my window contained palm trees and sandy beaches. This window resembled the large windshield of an RV. I wanted to step outside my comfort zone, and travel to warm climates in the winter and visit friends I had yet to meet. I longed to sit by the ocean and spend days on end writing, walking, and in general, dreaming up a good story to tell. I dreamed of visiting new cities and making friends along the way. Much like Promised Land, the 1996 TV show with Gerald McRaney. Is the time to resurrect my dream or some version at hand? Can one person cling to a dream all by herself? Am I too old to adventure into the unknown all on my own? So many questions and only God holds the answers. A few days ago while reading from the devotional book, Jesus Calling, this sentence struck me, "I can bring beauty out of the ashes of lost dreams." Perhaps this is my answer.
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